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- It Is Unnatural. A woman was designed to compliment the man she is with just like the man was designed to compliment the woman he is with. If you think like ME, what do I need YOU for?
- You’re Going To Attract The Wrong Kind Of Man. What kind of man would genuinely be attracted to a woman that thinks like a man other than a homosexual man? Don’t be surprised when he tells you he’s “out with the guys”, you find out he is really OUT WITH THE GUYS!!!
- You’re SUPPOSED To Be Emotional. All that “holding in your emotions” stuff is for the birds. Cry it out! You’ll feel better!!!
- Most Of Us Men Spend A Lot Of Our Time Looking For Our Next Nut. If you’re spending most of YOUR time looking for the next nut, who is going to act like they genuinely care about our children’s small conversation? Who is going to pay the bills on time? Who THE HELL is going to do the dishes?
- Who REALLY takes relationship advice from someone who has NEVER been in a successful relationship? (A Recently Divorced Comedian)… I don’t ask for stock tips from a homeless man (even though Pursuit of Happyness was a great movie). With that being said, a man can’t tell a woman how to or how not to think any better than a bird can teach a fish how to fly. In other words, stop taking “women should act like THIS” demands from men so seriously (including mine). We (men) can’t honestly tell a woman how to be a woman while still focusing on being the best men we can possibly be. Bad advice is like sex from a prostitute (don’t ask me how I know), it is easy to come by and attain. However, in hindsight – it will only leave you with an empty feeling and lost in the crowd with the other hopeless and desperate people looking for any way out. Nova Knows…
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May 3rd, 2012 | 12:09 pm
Never understood the types of women who get caught up in this type of stuff. Dont get me wrong, we have all been played, or played over someone. But its those women who look for the same type of man, learn nothing from their mistakes, and then complain about a man shortage. No honey,,,, you been through them all.
You dont have to think like anyone. Just stop….and…think.
April 24th, 2012 | 3:28 pm
Sooo ….
“2.You’re Going To Attract The Wrong Kind Of Man. What kind of man would genuinely be attracted to a woman that thinks like a man other than a homosexual man? Don’t be surprised when he tells you he’s “out with the guys”, you find out he is really OUT WITH THE GUYS!!!”
Great points to be made without the homophobia. Ladies, our race seems way to comfortable with piling on in bashing and assigning gender roles.
We need to move away from that.
April 20th, 2012 | 2:31 pm
I think we care too much about how to “act” like a man or woman and not enough time on how to act and be OURSELVES. Not every woman is the same just as well as every man is the same. women do experience different things from men and vise versa but instead of focusing on some bull shit notion of how a woman should actin order to attract a man or vise versa maybe people should focus more on being themselves that way they will honestly find someone who is compatible whether than someone who is putting on an act.
April 12th, 2012 | 6:37 pm
Act like a LADY and you won’t have to think like a man! Simple.
Women have been doing it for centuries.
April 12th, 2012 | 12:14 am
Lol. I love you, B. I thought this was really funny. I like how you put a disclaimer at the end for readers not to take relationship advice from the opposite sex serious (including yours) and you still got emotional feedback. I LOVE your response even more though, “Thank you for reading.” Classic. Keep doing what you do. I’m extremely proud of you!
April 9th, 2012 | 2:35 pm
Obviously these women don’t realize Steve Harvey is pimpin anyone that buys his book or buys a ticket to see his mobie. He could give a rats ass about a woman. Its all about the royalty check he’ll be receiving at the end of the month. It’s just the new Tyler Perry card being pulled right now because that feed into this are intrigued by the downgrading of black men, the real black men. It’s always some coon as book movie that sees the light of day. It is virtually impossible for you women to take advice from someone like him, Tyler, or Hill Harper. Women are already been betrayed in the worse way on these reality shows, this is only gonna take it a step farther.
April 9th, 2012 | 2:20 pm
LMAOOOOOO
April 9th, 2012 | 2:02 pm
This has to be one of the worse dating advice blogs I have read in a very long time! It is 10X worse than Steve Harveys book, which I don’t agree with either. Let me answer a few of the questions: 1. Who’s going to act like they GENUINELY care about the kids if were both looking for a nut? Both parents should act like care or what’s the purpose of a two parent household? 2. Who’s going to wash the dishes? Well since most men I know don’t want a housewife and expect their woman to work, I assume the maid is going to do them. I stop trying to be super woman 3 promotions ago. 3. If you think like ME, what do I need YOU for? Well…the concept is to understand how men think not to be a man or think like a man literally! And if both sexes would take some time to understand how their mates think, maybe people would be in happier relationships. 4. Be emotional…cool. That what I just did on this blog!
April 9th, 2012 | 11:45 am
Thank you for reading…
April 9th, 2012 | 10:54 am
You are a complete idiot. Those are the most ridiculous reasons I have ever heard. How sexist r u? Who is going to clean the dishes huh? Y don’t you clean your own damn dishes, pay your own damn bills and take care of your children the way a real man would. If you expect your women to do your dishes, pay your bills, and take care of the kids then you will be a sad and lonely man the rest of your life. You obviously are too SCARED of a women THINKING like a man and ACTING like a women because you know women would be a real threat to your career and life. Behind every GOOD man is a women, behind every GOOD women is herself!! So you ask if a women thinks like a man then what do you need a women for?? Well for one, to obviously take care of you and make all your decisions for you since you obviously do not know how to be a man or a responsible adult. Two, without women you’ll become that homosexual because you won’t be getting any from any women. You should really re-evaluate giving advice. Just like your last reason, you are that inexperienced idiot giving out bad, advice that was obviously not thought out. Whoever is taking your advice is just as stupid and sad and I feel real sorry for all of you. But I guess this type of thinking expected coming from a MAN! That is why you need a women. Good luck in your pathetic life, your going to need it thinking the way you do, moron.
April 9th, 2012 | 7:59 am
I can blow Mina’s comments out of the water but like she said she’s young too and is looking for her next nut. Cool and funny article but I have to slightly disagree with the advice part although I know what you mean. Taking advice from someone who has failed can actually be a good thing because telling you how you how they failed is just as equally important as telling how they were successful.
April 8th, 2012 | 10:33 pm
thank you for reading
April 8th, 2012 | 10:20 pm
Ah wtf… It’s act like a LADY and think like a man. Not act like a man…
Why would a woman overall demeanor change? Why would her awesome as a feminine figure change? This is a horribly thought out article.
April 8th, 2012 | 10:04 pm
Ok this article is absolutely ridiculous and dumb! I’ve never read Steve Harvey’s book because I didn’t need to but WTF?! You’re supposed to be emotional? So all women are supposed to play to the stereotypes that women are supposed to be bitchy, overly sensitive, and easy to cry at the drop of a hat? Get real! How is it unnatural to think like a man? I mean, of course, playing off the stereotypical gender roles, it would be “unnatural” but fuck that! This is not the 50′s anymore! I’ve been raised as a tomboy by my upper middle class black single mother. She was a tomboy and my grandmother was a tomboy. All of them “thought” like a man to avoid getting hurt, to understand the opposite sex and all of them had successful marriages. Don’t be a dumbass and think things through like a “stereotypical” woman or get advice about men from other women who have no idea what men think or do and say they’re all dogs, but get advice from men. That’s why women need more guy friends to learn more about the opposite sex and to prepare themselves from getting hurt. You’re going to attract the wrong kind of man, AKA gay men…that is the stupidest generalization I have ever heard. I “think” like a man and attract “straight” men all the time. All of my guys are my type, however, I’m the type that’s not settling down anytime soon. I’ve been proposed to many a times, but I’m young and like men, looking for my next nut, I guess. Men are attracted to women who like the same things as they do, someone who is similar to them. I like rock and playing video games. I also like to cook and dress up from time to time. But men tell me all the time, they love a woman who likes rap, rock, and video games and wish more women were the same.
Most of the men who spend time looking for their next nut are the ones who are afraid of commitment. Why the hell are you wasting time on them anyway? NEXT!!! Who is going to act like they genuinely care about our children’s small conversation? Obviously someone who’s not commited. Who is going to pay the bills on time? Uh, shouldn’t that be you, miss independent? Who THE HELL is going to do the dishes? The only man doing the dishes is a man who’s serious to settle down…or a “stereotypical” woman since we’re talking about gender roles here.
The only part of your article I agree with is the last. Of course, divorce doesn’t always mean you’re unsuccessful in the next relationship. But if you have a history of cheating on and leaving your women, then you shouldn’t be giving any advice on a successful relationship whatsoever.
April 8th, 2012 | 9:54 pm
Are you kidding me? Condescending, sexist drivel.
April 8th, 2012 | 9:11 pm
I’ve been saying all of this every since that book came out! Poor women! Some of us will fall for anything.