After watching a handful of rerun episodes of Girlfriends on BET I couldn’t help but think about how the number of girlfriends in my life is vastly decreasing. Not to sound cliché,but I seriously can count on one hand how many friends I have. I’m known to cut people off quickly but, I just don’t see the point of continuing friendships if a person sends red flags that they are possibly toxic. I have also never been into pseudo friendships just to be able to say that I have friends.
I’d like to know from my veteran Vixens is it possible to gain genuine friendships after the age of 25? After all, they say that the friends you had in high school you will not have them post graduation. It’s also been said that you’ll cultivate your best friendships in college. But, once those deteriorate what else is left?