Comments on: Cheating: Deal Breaker or Part of the Bargain? http://www.vibevixen.com/cocobware/2011/07/18/cheating-deal-breaker-or-part-of-the-bargain/ Coco B. & the Boys (and Girls) Tue, 04 Oct 2011 12:14:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 By: Maria http://www.vibevixen.com/cocobware/2011/07/18/cheating-deal-breaker-or-part-of-the-bargain/#comment-3 Maria Mon, 18 Jul 2011 17:19:24 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/cocobware/?p=5#comment-3 I refuse to be anything but, the only one! No point in being in a committed relationship if there are going to be others. i refuse to believe this is part of the bargain, unfortunately it seems cheating has become more socially acceptable. I refuse to be anything but, the only one! No point in being in a committed relationship if there are going to be others. i refuse to believe this is part of the bargain, unfortunately it seems cheating has become more socially acceptable.

]]> By: tatiana http://www.vibevixen.com/cocobware/2011/07/18/cheating-deal-breaker-or-part-of-the-bargain/#comment-2 tatiana Mon, 18 Jul 2011 16:14:13 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/cocobware/?p=5#comment-2 Cheating is not synonymous with being human. People cheat because of their own personal issues or because they can get away with it. People cheat out of unhappiness or fear. I firmly believe that in order to avoid cheating, couples really need to have a conversation about their relationship in the beginning. A lot of people make a distinction between emotional cheating and physical cheating. This needs to be discussed. Also - what happens in the event of cheating? what happens if your partner kisses someone, or starts to really like another person? That openness needs to really be there. Also though, self knowledge is really important. Naturally, this is a life long process but it helps to open with yourself about why you're doing the things you're doing. Just some thoughts! Cheating is not synonymous with being human. People cheat because of their own personal issues or because they can get away with it. People cheat out of unhappiness or fear. I firmly believe that in order to avoid cheating, couples really need to have a conversation about their relationship in the beginning. A lot of people make a distinction between emotional cheating and physical cheating. This needs to be discussed. Also – what happens in the event of cheating? what happens if your partner kisses someone, or starts to really like another person? That openness needs to really be there.

Also though, self knowledge is really important. Naturally, this is a life long process but it helps to open with yourself about why you’re doing the things you’re doing.

Just some thoughts!

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