sex + relationships
I was twelve when my mother sat me down one Saturday afternoon and pulled out a couple pamphlets on female reproduction, ones that I’m so sure she got from the [...]
It seems to be a reoccurring theme featured throughout my Twitter timeline and Facebook homepage; young women whining about how some guy wasted their time. It starts off with a [...]
From Hello Beautiful – Ladies the pickings are allegedly slim, and there are fewer truly available men, emphasis on black, to go around. Why is this? I mean we can [...]
My friend and I were talking yesterday about how you can lose everything in a matter of seconds. Evelyn Lozada had it all: a successful career, a great relationship and [...]
Recently the New York Times ran an article about four heterosexual men who live together in NY and have been doing so since their college days at NYU, 18 years [...]
From Clutch–Last summer, my dating memoir/ advice book, A Belle in Brooklyn, debuted in hard cover. Of all the stories or quips/tips, I shared, I noticed that in interviews and discussions [...]
From UPTOWN–Hey guys. We get it. We know you want it. Not in the narci-sassy “Oh, you KNOW you want THIS” sort of way. But in the grown up “this [...]
I’m a 22-year-old heterosexual female living in the United States of America and I’ve never had a boyfriend. Now, I know what you’re thinking, and I promise, there’s nothing wrong [...]
I’m sick with a feeling that I haven’t genuinely felt in quite a while. The symptoms? Butterflies in the depths of my poor, Frappuccino-filled stomach. A vulnerable and uncontrollable girlish [...]
Eve may be happily cuffed with her racecar-driving mogul boo thang but there was once a time she called Stevie J her “man.” In a recent interview at the Uniquely [...]

















