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		<title>Lil Kim on Tour, Slated to Release Book and Documentary</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:58:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lil’ Kim is slated to publish her first book on her stint in jail with St. Marten’s press. She told WCGI&#8217;s Morning Riot that she is working on a new [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/vibevixen-lilkimriptherunway.png" rel="lightbox[23495]" title="Lil Kim Rip The Runway "><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-19241" title="Lil Kim Rip The Runway " src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/vibevixen-lilkimriptherunway-300x436.png" alt="" width="300" height="436" /></a>Lil’ Kim is slated to publish her first book on her stint in jail with St. Marten’s press. She told WCGI&#8217;s Morning Riot that she is working on a new album, plans to drop some new singles in the near future and her pending documentary.</p>
<p>&#8220;I got a bunch of singles that we&#8217;re getting ready to throw out in a few seconds,&#8221; she says. &#8220;We&#8217;re going to throw out a few singles first so we can get everybody familiar with my new sound. I have a documentary that I&#8217;m going to put out, and that&#8217;s going to explain a lot of things where people can stop asking me silly questions and stuff like that. When I put the documentary out, a lot of questions will be answered.”<br />
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<p><em>Check out the dates for Kim’s </em><em><strong>Return of the Queen</strong></em><em> tour on the next page!<!--nextpage--> </em><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/vibevixen-lilkimwatchwhathappens.jpg" rel="lightbox[23495]" title="Lil Kim Watch What Happens "><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-18378" title="Lil Kim Watch What Happens " src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/vibevixen-lilkimwatchwhathappens-300x289.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="289" /></a>May 11 – Austin, TX – Emo’s<br />
May 13 – Pensacola, FL – Vinyl Music Hall<br />
May 18 – Bronx, NY – Paradise Theater<br />
May 19 – Albany, NY – Northern Lights<br />
May 20 – Philadelphia, PA – Club ONYX<br />
May 22 – Burlington, VT – Higher Ground<br />
May 25 – Markham, IL – Adrianna’s Night Club<br />
May 27 – Milwaukee, WI – Riverside Theatre<br />
June 1 – Cincinnati, OH – Bogart’s<br />
June 11 – San Francisco, CA – Mezzanine<br />
June 13 – West Hollywood, CA – Key Club<em></em></p>
<p>I couldn’t help but to notice that a few of these stops on her tour are at strip clubs. It still must suck to be performing at such venues after almost 20 years in the game. I hope her book deal goes well and she can also find a career in writing, because waxing poetic about the finer points of fellatio is not a good look at almost 40.</p>
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		<title>Trina Braxton Files for Divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 20:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Braxton Family Values]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Braxton sister Trina from one of our favorite reality shows is apparently tired of her husband shit and his embarrassing antics that have gone viral in the blogosphere. So tired, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-trina-braxton.jpg" rel="lightbox[23440]" title="Trina Braxton"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-23493" title="Trina Braxton" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-trina-braxton-300x432.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="432" /></a>Braxton sister <strong>Trina</strong> from one of our favorite reality shows is apparently tired of her husband shit and his embarrassing antics that have gone viral in the blogosphere. So tired, in fact, that she is ready to sign them papers.  She had this to say in an interview with <a title="365 Voice interview with Trina Braxton" href="http://365voice.com/trina-braxton-talks-about-her-relationship-status-if-toni-is-returning-to-bfv-party-or-go-home-more/" target="_blank">365Voice</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>You know a lot of people it seems like has </em>[sic]<em> gone through the same situation or they’ve been through something very similar in their relationship and their just kind of like what do you do? How do you do this? And what do you think I should do? The first thing I say is I don’t know because you never know what you’ll do unless you go through something yourself. I have learned to keep my mouth shut with that. As far as the status of Gabe and I, I have filed for divorce however we are being very adult about it. We are talking, we are still raising the children together and we are still praying about his sex addiction therapy that he’s going to a counselor for as well. We’re doing a lot of praying and a lot of keeping outside influences away from our decision making. I think that’s one of the biggest mistakes we’ve made through the seasons of </em>Braxton Family Values<em>.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>For those unfamiliar with this saga, Trina’s husband Gabe was videotaped on Skype having an illicit chat with a woman he met on social media, even going so far as exposing his package. As if that is not bad enough, Gabe had admitted during the first season to engaging in an affair for five out of the seven years they were married.</p>
<p>This is unfortunate that their problems had to play out on national television, particularly when there are children involved. We wish Trina the best during this time.</p>
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		<title>Amber Rose and Wiz Khalifa Kick It at Coachella</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 17:20:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently engaged couple Amber and Wiz Khalifa were spotted getting lovey dovey behind the scenes of Coachella Music Festival.  The rapper performed with his idol Snoop Dog on one of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Recently engaged couple <strong>Amber</strong> and <strong>Wiz Khalifa</strong> were spotted getting lovey dovey behind the scenes of Coachella Music Festival.  The rapper performed with his idol Snoop Dog on one of the stages, and took some time to snap pictures with his beau Amber. That engagement ring is shining! I love this couple together! Flip the page to check out some of the pics.<!--nextpage--><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-amber-and-wiz3.jpg" rel="lightbox[23427]" title="Amber and Wiz"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-23428" title="Amber and Wiz" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-amber-and-wiz3-600x600.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="600" /></a><!--nextpage--><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-amber.jpg" rel="lightbox[23427]" title="Amber"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-23430" title="Amber" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-amber-600x600.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="600" /></a></p>
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		<title>Azealia Banks and Santigold Rock &#8216;ELLE&#8217; Magazine</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 20:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Three of our favorite Vixens have scored spreads in ELLE magazine&#8217;s Women in Music edition. Rihanna appears on the cover dawning her dirty blonde tresses and lambskin yellow skirt and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-azealia-banks-elle.jpg" rel="lightbox[22986]" title="Azealia Banks ELLE"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-22988" title="Azealia Banks ELLE" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/vibevixen-azealia-banks-elle-300x450.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="450" /></a>Three of our favorite Vixens have scored spreads in <em>ELLE</em> magazine&#8217;s Women in Music edition. <strong>Rihanna</strong> appears on <a title="Rihanna Covers ‘ELLE’ Magazine, Says Chris Brown Incident Was Liberating" href="http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/04/rihanna-covers-elle-magazine-says-chris-brown-incident-was-liberating/">the cover</a> dawning her dirty blonde tresses and lambskin yellow skirt and jacket by Versace, while hip-hop’s newest femcee fetish, <strong>Azealia Banks</strong>&#8211;who is also the musical muse of fashion legend Karl Lagerfield&#8211;was photographed in a wool matador hat by Moschino.</p>
<p>In her interview with <em>ELLE,</em> she had this to say to her naysayers, “They tell me I just got famous on YouTube. I’m like, ‘So? You didn’t get famous anywhere.’”</p>
<p>We love this chick for her raw and honest delivery! Tell them how you really feel.</p>
<p>And <strong>Santigold</strong> also secured a coveted spot in the spread. Adorning an Alexander Wang cotton hoodie and matching jean set the eclectic rapper-singer looked great. She has a new album out entitled <em>Master of My Make Believe</em>.</p>
<p>The new issue will hit stands on April 17t.</p>
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		<title>Deion Sanders&#8217; Alleged Sidepiece Takes Shots at Pilar</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 17:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Pilar and Deion Sanders divorce gets messier by the second. Somebody’s PR team needs to come and clean this up! In the latest installment, Deion’s alleged sidepiece is taking [...]]]></description>
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<p>This <strong>Pilar</strong> and <strong>Deion Sanders</strong> divorce gets messier by the second. Somebody’s PR team needs to come and clean this up! In the latest installment, Deion’s alleged sidepiece is taking shots at <a title="Pilar Sanders Makes Appearance on ‘Single Ladies’" href="http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/04/pilar-sanders-makes-appearance-on-single-ladies/">Pilar </a>via her Twitter account. She made brazen references to her being the &#8220;Angelina Jolie&#8221; to Deion and Pilar being &#8220;Jennifer Aniston,&#8221; a beautiful but boring wife.</p>
<p>I wish she was as bold in throwing these obvious punches at Pilar as she was about her wardrobe game. Rayon rouge dresses are not the business, and neither are elastic belts with bows on them boo-boo! If she is busting it open for Deion, we know he hasn’t made much of an investment in her financially.</p>
<p>According to her Twitter page, she is a young college co-ed. I guess you can’t be all the way mad. What else would you expect from a young jawn? Deion needs to do a better job at picking his mistresses!</p>
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		<title>How Not to Be a Fashion Faux Pas on Easter Sunday</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 18:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everybody and they mama will be going to church this Easter Sunday: the folk that haven’t been to church since Christmas and Mother’s Day two years ago before that, along [...]]]></description>
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<p>Everybody and they mama will be going to church this Easter Sunday: the folk that haven’t been to church since Christmas and Mother’s Day two years ago before that, along with the saved and sanctified church folk who make an appearance four times during the week and twice on Sunday. It will no doubt be a show, as we all know Easter Sunday is the time to show up and show out in your best and brightest outfit.</p>
<p>There will be the obligatory assortment of ornately designed hats, periwinkle gators on size 12 men’s feet, white panty hose and patent leather pumps and color blocking attempts gone all the way wrong. Because Easter suits are a source of pride and joy in our community, do your best not to bring disgrace to this Black tradition by showing up to church as an absolute fashion faux pas.</p>
<p>While you are primping with getting your hair done, and finalizing the last details of your outfit, here are four fashion tips to keep in mind.</p>
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<p><strong></strong>1. Keep it Simple. I know it’s Easter Sunday and it is the day to look and be your absolute best in celebrating the resurrection of your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, but even Jesus may be offended by an actual basket on your head. Stick to one hair style, as opposed to trying to have 3-in-1.</p>
<p>2. White panty hose are a no-no if you are over the age of five. In fact the ONLY time they ever look cute is on little girls with ruffle socks and patent leather shoes, with bows and barrettes in their hair . Please don’t commit this heinous offense, and advise the usher board and the deaconesses to do the same.</p>
<p>3.Color-blocking is your friend. With spring in full force, I know Easter is the ideal time to break out your pastels. But yellow shoes, with a yellow dress, and a yellow hat, with your yellow purse and yellow accessories are not poppin’. Try breaking up the brightly monotone theme in your outfit. A yellow dress accented with blue pumps, a cream-colored pant suit with a bold orange clutch bag&#8230; See where I am going with this? Break up the colors in your outfit to achieve a more polished and fashionable Easter Sunday outfit.</p>
<p>4. Sure, nail art is a super awesome trend, but you may want to tone it down a taste. There’s no need to have a floral design, some swirls, and butterflies on every single finger nail in addition to your already brightly colored outfit. Again. Keep it simple. Chose one accessory that you want to stand out and work that!</p>
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		<title>6 Things That Will Give Your Long Distance Romance a Boost</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 17:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes it&#8217;s torture being away from the one you love. Unfortunately, more often than I’d like, that is the case. Because my lifestyle calls for a lot of jet setting, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Picture-42.png" rel="lightbox[22389]" title="Long Distance"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-22390" title="Long Distance" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Picture-42.png" alt="" width="480" height="386" /></a>Sometimes it&#8217;s torture being away from the one you love. Unfortunately, more often than I’d like, that is the case. Because my lifestyle calls for a lot of jet setting, it is not unusual for me to be in Brazil for a stint of six months, volunteering in Haiti for weeks at a time or jetting off to a conferences in Washington D.C. for a weekend. While I love my life and the fact that I am able to travel a lot, it can put a strain on ones romantic life when your lover is not able to warm your bed every night.</p>
<p>While planned vacations, spontaneous flights and the occasions that you can be in the exact same city at the same time makes for some pretty romantic canoodling, adding spice to the relationship on a regular basis can pose some specific challenges when a continent separates you and you won’t be seeing your baby for two weeks or even longer.</p>
<p>Phone sex over a faulty cell phone connection becomes quite unsexy after a while, the obligatory Skype conversations eventually become mundane and you start feeling pretty icky about putting popsicles in orifices they don’t belong just to outdo your last video call session. Routine bedtime calls about how wonderful your day was spent chasing waterfalls, or how you trekked through the Blue Mountains and played drums with the Maroons while your beloved crunched numbers become, well, pretty damn lame and redundant conversations after a while.</p>
<p>So to add some spice into your long distance relationship whether it’s an international one, or your beau lives in another state these six things may bring the sparkle back.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Picture-42.png" rel="lightbox[22389]" title="Long Distance"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-22390" title="Long Distance" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Picture-42.png" alt="" width="480" height="386" /></a>1. Mail your lover a pair of your panties. Let him know that a special delivery awaits him in his mail box. You’ll want to make sure they are a nice, gently warn pair of your favorite panties.</p>
<p>2. Make him a one-minute video instead of the obligatory Skype date phone call, telling him how much you love and miss him, and send it to his iPhone or email.</p>
<p>3. Surprise visit. Were you supposed to come visit your beau after coming in town for an important conference? Tell him the conference got canceled and you won’t be able to make it, but arrange a surprise for him anyway.</p>
<p>4. Replace those obligatory phone calls with sporadic flirty text messages that don’t require a response. Change it up, nobody likes the same thing all of the time.</p>
<p>5. While sexy photographs are also nice, get some pictures of you and your beau together and make a photo collage or put it in an album to send to him. Frame some of the best ones for him to put on the nightstand or on the refrigerator in his office. You want to make sure that he is reminded of your face at integral points throughout the day.</p>
<p>6. Does your beau like one of your homemade dishes in particular? Do you bake a peach cobbler better than his mother? Do an overnight rush delivery of his favorite pie with a simple love note attached.</p>
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		<title>OMG Girl Zonnique Gets a Surprise Birthday Text from Rihanna</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rapper T.I. and Tiny’s daughter of a previous relationship recently celebrated her Sweet 16. It was a party fit for a princess. The parents spared no expense for the OMG [...]]]></description>
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<p>Rapper T.I. and Tiny’s daughter of a previous relationship recently celebrated her Sweet 16. It was a party fit for a princess. The parents spared no expense for the OMG girl on her special day. Rapper Diggy Simmons was in attendance, Justin Combs, as well as a a slew of other celebrity teenage kids. Ms. Zonnique even scored a Porsche from Papa T.I. But her surprises didn’t stop there! Apparently, Tiny tried to pull strings to have Rihanna make an appearance at her daughter’s birthday bash, but her schedule did not allow her to be there. Well, as a consolation prize, the OMG starlet got a text from her singing idol. </p>
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		<title>How to Break Up With Your BFF</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jayne Dirt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We’ve all heard the saying that some people are only meant to be in your life for a season, and most of the time we are intuitive enough to feel [...]]]></description>
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We’ve all heard the saying that some people are only meant to be in your life for a season, and most of the time we are intuitive enough to feel the temperatures of our friendship change, whether we acknowledge it or not. On some of our favorite reality shows, we’ve seen some of the best friendships take a turn for the absolute worst. Jennifer Williams and Evelynn Lazado of <em>Basketball Wive</em>s fame, Kim and NeNe on the <em>Real Housewives of Atlanta</em>, and probably you and your best friend “Keisha” who you’ve known since high school.</p>
<p>For whatever reason, the tides have changed in your relationship. Whether she broke the #1 girlfriend rule, ‘besties over testes’ or maybe you went off to college and your friend stayed home to go to nail school and now when you come home to visit it seems you have less in common. Or perhaps, one of your friends has wed, and has less time to devote to your friendship that once had you two joint at the hip like Frick and Frack. Whatever the case may be every person is not meant to be in your life forever. But every person does come into your life for a reason, and if you are in tune, there was most probably a valuable lesson that was derived from your former friends presence in your life at a particular time.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/BBall-Wives-2-Jennifer-and-Evelyn.jpeg" rel="lightbox[22360]" title="BBW"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-22363" title="BBW" src="http://www.vibevixen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/BBall-Wives-2-Jennifer-and-Evelyn.jpeg" alt="" width="490" height="289" /></a>But there are those instances in which some type of trust was broken or there have been repeated infractions of disrespect. In such cases addressing the situation head on can be tricky, but must be done. While some people are confrontational, others may be a bit more mild mannered. So, pick your poison. You may want to address the situation over dinner, through a letter or an email, or a simple phone call. However you decide, keep it classy and try not to result to childish antics and foul language and simply voice to your friend your disappointments. Also, keep an open ear, because you may not be above reproach in the way that you have handled the friendship either. However, if you feel the friendship is irretrievably broken you should express that and move along without bad mouthing your former homegirl, even if she did do some foul shit. The high road is always best.</p>
<p>It can be painful to lose a friend, but be thankful for the times that you were able to share, and the good memories that were formed, and simply keep it pushing. God is only making room to bring more blessings into your life after he finishes pruning your tree.</p>
<p>Count it all joy!</p>
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