Career vs. Job
Are you investing in a career instead of a job? A career is the “pursuit of a lifelong ambition” in which you must have certain abilities and specialties that you train and study to gain. A job is an “activity through which an individual can earn money” and you don’t necessarily need any special skills.
Men want to be pushed by their significant other’s hardwork and vice versa. That means if you’re working to get by or look fly, he sees you as a bad investment. A man with aspiration isn’t marrying a woman that’s stagnant and is okay living based on her weekly paycheck.