If you can’t readily discuss your future success plans, he won’t see you being a good teammate. Like Steve Harvey said, “what are your short term, long term goals?”. If you have none, you need to start mapping them out.
Make a vision board, finish those college courses and apply for that career job you want. If a guy knows his girl’s goal in life is to own the basketball team instead of becoming a basketball wife, you’ll definitely get the commitment you seek.