House in Order
What does his living situation look like? If you’re always at his house, but never take the initiative to straighten up his things, he’s not seeing signs to lock you down. We’re not saying give up your feministic views on equality, but remember you’re a lady. If you’re okay with living in an unkept place, you’ll become more of a girl that can kick it than someone that is laying the foundation of a partnership.
Small baby steps is all it takes. If you sleep over and he’s getting dressed, make the bed. If you come there and there’s clothes everywhere, pick them up. The more he sees you making him get his appearance together, he’ll learn the rules, adapt, but really appreciate it.