So what changed in season two?
The crazy thing about it is relationships have problems all the time. And we were going through some things then that we didn’t even put all of the situation out there on television. But coming into the second season we were both like, “You know what? Let’s just let our realities be what they are…and make it do what it do.” What people have to understand is nobody’s relationship is perfect. But I’ve talked to people that have problems way worse than me and Kirk have been through [laughs]. I’m going to keep it real. Half these hoes have been through the same things we were going through, but they want to act like they are perfect. But with us it just played out on TV.
A picture is worth a thousand words, and one in particular was floating around was of you and Mary Jane, who reportedly Kirk had an affair with. Obviously you were hurt because your husband stepped out on you, but have you since become friends with Mary Jane?
I’ve only known Mary Jane in passing, like “Hi, how you doing?” Some picture popped up…but shit, a million pictures can pop up because everywhere I go people want to take pictures. So that was no big deal. I’ve seen her around, but she’s never been anybody I have ever hung with or kicked it with. We not on the same level.
What was your reaction when you found out that Kirk was cheating on you?
I was angry and disappointed because I felt as though my teammate let me down, you know? Although he confessed that nothing really happened, it’s just the fact that you felt you needed to go that far to get my attention. Especially at the time I was pregnant and going through a lot of things as your wife and as your friend. One thing I have realized about being on reality TV is people are going to talk about your ass no matter what. I could be out here being the best woman feeding the hungry and putting the homeless in houses…it wouldn’t make no difference. But the moment you have some ratchetness going on people are really going to talk about you. But I expected that.
Photo Credit: Ebony