Him: Every guy knows that a woman’s first negotiation is to not give it up at all, and we’ve been taught that the pot of gold is to get it. A lot of guys get excited by that. How much of a challenge will this be? You’re going to make me work for it. If I can take you out on dinner and have you over the house staying late at night, then in my mind, your behaviors are already showing me that if I do enough of these things, eventually I’ll get you to compromise. [Celibacy] was my journey, and I had other men around me who were committed to that walk as well, so I didn’t feel like I was some oddball. Sex was one of my biggest vices, but when I got rid of that, I was able to start dealing with other things like pride and ego. Once you remove sex from the picture, it removes a big veil and you see people for who they are. Because [my wife and I] were both committed to that lifestyle when we were dating, we know that our accountability is first to God and we trust each other a lot more in our relationship. The fact that we honored God in that way when we were dating has allowed us to have peace in our marriage that a lot of marriages today are missing. –Armond E. Mosley, motivational speaker and author of Rededication: A Story of Sex, Repentance and Restoration
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