3. Listen to each others complaints.
If you’ve examined your heart and decided you want to make amends, sit down and discuss the issues that triggered the break up. It may not be about who’s right or wrong; it may be about what you’re each willing to tolerate. If you can’t come to an agreement or get past this step, do you really want to go through this again? Remember that if you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always had—you’ve got to try something new to get different results.