1. Your family despises him and vice versa!
Ladies, there’s no reason to drag him to your house kicking and screaming, when you know your family wouldn’t spit on him if he were ablaze. Just let it go! When taking the main squeeze back to the crib, you have to make sure it’s a smoothe ride. The holidays can already bring the drama, so don’t add fuel to the fire. Spending the holidays apart isn’t ideal, but it won’t kill you. Start with mini gatherings, like birthdays, before you have him carving the turkey next to Pops.