I have a simple tidbit to share: Exercise discernment in your dating life. Discernment is the ability to look beyond the surface and see what’s really going on. I can’t tell you the number of women I’ve coached through relationship problems. I think I’ve heard “he’s nice” at least a thousand times, but Vixens, I challenge you to look at a man’s character, his true heart.
Who is he beyond the achievements and the looks? Who are his friends? How does he treat other women in his life? What’s he like when he’s angry? These are all tell-tale signs of who he truly is. But if you’re not discerning enough, you could miss this. Take Chad and Evelyn for instance, the warning signs were glaringly obvious but both chose to ignore. You want to avoid precarious situations at all costs!
I want you to find your life partner, but I also don’t want you to be naïve in your selections. If you see warning signs, don’t ignore them. You have to treat the warning signs as data to make an informed decision. This is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, right? Why not do your homework? The truth is all of you are worth too much to spend your time on nonsense! Have a wonderful week!
Pervis Taylor III, is a Life Coach Workshop Leader and Author of the book Pervis Principles Volume One. For more information visit www.pervistaylor.com and follow on twitter: @pervistaylor