1. Ms. Patton has no time for a man. Walk with us through this one, now. So in the beginning of Ms. Patton’s segment, she talks about how she left her husband who she says essentially made her choose between Usher and their marriage. It really is commendable that a woman would choose her child(ren) over a man. But … is there no ability to balance the time you give both your son and your husband? It had to come down to the ultimatum? Those reins couldn’t be loosened enough to save your marriage? Sacrifice is one thing … crazy overbearing smothering control is another. Sounds like the groundwork was laid for the current circus a long time ago.