Finances: I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger, but you sure don’t want a broke you-know-what. Of course, it’s not a good look to date guys solely based on their financial status, but don’t sell yourself short either. You deserve to be wined and dined and any man that you choose to keep around should be able to do that for you. If he never wants to go on dates, don’t assume he’s a homebody, because even homebody’s will think of creative ways to treat their woman to a good time. Assume that he’s broke and doesn’t have the guts to tell you. Side note: make sure you have your own too. There’s nothing wrong with picking up a dinner or movie tab every now and then ladies.