Ex-Girlfriends: That’s right. If you happen to have mutual friends with him, do research on his ex-lovers. Not in a stalking, friend-every-ex-on-Facebook type of way, but maybe see if you know one or two ghosts from his past. It will give you an idea of what type of women he’s used to dealing with. In some cases, you can upgrade a man. But if he’s used to dating Joseline’s and you’re more of a traditional woman with morals and values, he might get bored with you after a while and revert back to what he’s used to. Save yourself the drama and therapy visits.