http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/03/personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/03/personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks/#comment-5265 Miss a Wed, 07 Mar 2012 22:08:38 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19481#comment-5265 All I can offer is 'wait on the Lord' and be content with what you have and who you are because tomorrow isn't promised. I would advise not to devote too much time thinking about what or who you don't have. Trust me, if it's for you you will have it in time. Time. I see some women tolerate mediocre relationships just because they think being single sucks. However, being alone in a relationship sucks even more. I don't claim to be an expert by any means though. Just my thoughts:) All I can offer is ‘wait on the Lord’ and be content with what you have and who you are because tomorrow isn’t promised. I would advise not to devote too much time thinking about what or who you don’t have. Trust me, if it’s for you you will have it in time. Time. I see some women tolerate mediocre relationships just because they think being single sucks. However, being alone in a relationship sucks even more. I don’t claim to be an expert by any means though. Just my thoughts:)

]]> http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/03/personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks/#comment-5253 trininista Tue, 06 Mar 2012 23:29:02 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19481#comment-5253 The gospel!! The gospel!!

]]> http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/03/personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks/#comment-5252 Prudence Tue, 06 Mar 2012 22:15:53 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19481#comment-5252 This post hit the nail on the head. It's in those small moments - like reaching for you phone and almost texting a male you know is "not going to care much" that you realize your singleness and crave companionship. Welp! This post hit the nail on the head. It’s in those small moments – like reaching for you phone and almost texting a male you know is “not going to care much” that you realize your singleness and crave companionship. Welp!

]]> http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/03/personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks/#comment-5251 Jasmine Tue, 06 Mar 2012 21:34:37 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19481#comment-5251 The transparency is ohhhhh so needed!!! Thanx girl!!! The transparency is ohhhhh so needed!!! Thanx girl!!!

]]> http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/03/personal-notes-being-super-single-sucks/#comment-5249 EbsTheWay Tue, 06 Mar 2012 21:00:48 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19481#comment-5249 Chilllllleeeee. Being single isn't a place I'm happy about at my age and place in life either. Like you, I went HAM about it for a minute. But recently, I realized, I may be single but my options aren't exhausted in the least bit. As a guy friend reminds me everyday, men hold the relationship cards now- too many of us for them to feel obligated. However, if we relinquish control over this thing, guys can surprise us. We look for relationships, they end up in them. That said, sometimes you have to change up your game plan to get what you want. And that's what I'm doing. Chilllllleeeee. Being single isn’t a place I’m happy about at my age and place in life either. Like you, I went HAM about it for a minute. But recently, I realized, I may be single but my options aren’t exhausted in the least bit. As a guy friend reminds me everyday, men hold the relationship cards now- too many of us for them to feel obligated. However, if we relinquish control over this thing, guys can surprise us. We look for relationships, they end up in them. That said, sometimes you have to change up your game plan to get what you want. And that’s what I’m doing.

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