Ladies Can Be Clique-ish. Especially when going on a trip with friends, who are also friends of friends. Alliances can be formed, which can invariably cause someone to be a third wheel. This is where being flexible is so important. As aforementioned, take the time out to participate in activities that the group can participate in together. Zip-lining, horseback riding, wine tasting, a concert, something to lessen the tension and help you refocus on the amazing time to be had while you are away.