Comments on: 7 Ways To Find Mr. Right Now Before Valentine’s Day

By: TBell

TBell — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 18:15:23 +0000

Good post..#5 and. #6 are dead on…

By: Jovian Zayne

Jovian Zayne — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:13:37 +0000

Love this Byron! And especially #6 and this line —> “You always have a choice in who you dance or converse with, but responding with an attitude means that you probably should’ve stayed home. “but responding with an attitude means that you probably should’ve stayed home.”

I hate to see chicks with a bad attitude for nothing. That’s the quickest way to turn someone off! Have fun and treat people the way you wanna be treated. Guys included.

By: chill19121

chill19121 — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:33:35 +0000

Great points however Im not sure I can go for point #4. Im every bit of 6ft with heels and I not going out with anyone that can fit in my son’s car seat lol

By: Cheryl K.

Cheryl K. — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:40:08 +0000

Great Points! Maybe ladies can practice on Mr. Right Now so they can work their way to Mr. Right…

By: E.N.T.

E.N.T. — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:00:00 +0000

Edwards, does it again! Great post!

By: Reaves

Reaves — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:56:01 +0000

Awesome post in general…Well written and easy to follow. I definitely agree and disagree on a few items, though. On “Doing things alone” – no female (or male for that matter) wants to “look” like they are seeking a male’s attention, so of course she is going to act like she is not interested and have fun with her group of girlfriends, praying the man walks up to her. Yes- its a game and yes both males and females play it well.

I also think that “Getting comfortable” as soon as possible is the way to go. If a man met me in my blonde 18 inch weave with fake eyelashes and pretty Louboutins, and I continue this charade for three dates, but show up to our 4th date in my regular short black hair and basic K-Mart flats, he is going to be pissed. Not only looks-wise, either. If I am super nice for a while, but then decide to be a jerk…my true self… he is going to blame me for wasting his time.

One more quick thing, know this is getting long…There is no way on earth I or any other women is lowering her standards on what she wants her guy to look like..nor should she have to. Women like different guys – and everyone will get play…so why settle when there are millions of men on the planet?

Very dope read though – right in time for the holiday!

By: kells

kells — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:32:03 +0000

Have fun ladies, courtship doesn’t have to be such a grind. Feel free to suggest things that you’d like to do too. I agree with these points, so lighten up and enjoy the process.

By: Merrick

Merrick — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:12:20 +0000

I most definitely agree with these items and probably would add a couple more to the list. I think many single females time their interactions with males using their biological clocks, feeling they need to find quick ways to sift through men cause they don’t have time to waste. Ladies should view conversing with men like a wine tasting, they should enjoy interacting with a varity of guys and take the time to allow each one to show his flavor. If he’s not your brand that is okay, but at least you gave them the opportunity to wow you, with no preconceived notions or inhabitions. Almost all 7 ways some how or another boil down to a timing issue, so a paint brush piece of advice would be to count the experience gained rather than the time spent!

By: anony

anony — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 18:44:09 +0000

Great post… if only everyone would listen to this advice. #truth