Comments on: 3 Rules to a Healthy, Open Relationship http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 By: Kennedy http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5036 Kennedy Tue, 28 Feb 2012 22:49:24 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5036 This is sad smh, Women please dont accept this. Dont let men have thier cake and eat it too. Women have been so programmed from little girls to find a husband and get married that we are starting to go to desperate measures just to get a ring. We have become consumed with the idea of marraige rather than the principles. If a man is not ready to be monogomous he is not ready to be a husband. I'm not one to judge but I must say I am so disappointed in Evelyn, I wonder would she want her dauhgter to SETTLE and marry a man that wants to sleep with other women? #RAPITUP This is sad smh, Women please dont accept this. Dont let men have thier cake and eat it too. Women have been so programmed from little girls to find a husband and get married that we are starting to go to desperate measures just to get a ring. We have become consumed with the idea of marraige rather than the principles. If a man is not ready to be monogomous he is not ready to be a husband. I’m not one to judge but I must say I am so disappointed in Evelyn, I wonder would she want her dauhgter to SETTLE and marry a man that wants to sleep with other women? #RAPITUP

]]> By: Niki McGloster http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5029 Niki McGloster Tue, 28 Feb 2012 20:56:16 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5029 Thank you, Alexandria Wilson! You completely answered the question at the end of the post :) xoxo Thank you, Alexandria Wilson! You completely answered the question at the end of the post :)

xoxo

]]> By: Alexandria Wilson http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5028 Alexandria Wilson Tue, 28 Feb 2012 20:14:11 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5028 How is that Vibe Vixen's 3 Rules to a Healthy, Open Relationship don't include getting TESTED for STD's and HIV after each extramarital affair! With the high rate of AIDS/HIV in the black community, you'd think that VIBE would stress the actual HEALTH risks (at least those that extend beyond mental health) of being in an open relationship. This is bad journalism (yes, even celebrity news tends to be journalism these days,) I demand more from my communities' journalists! How is that Vibe Vixen’s 3 Rules to a Healthy, Open Relationship don’t include getting TESTED for STD’s and HIV after each extramarital affair! With the high rate of AIDS/HIV in the black community, you’d think that VIBE would stress the actual HEALTH risks (at least those that extend beyond mental health) of being in an open relationship. This is bad journalism (yes, even celebrity news tends to be journalism these days,) I demand more from my communities’ journalists!

]]> By: Jelly http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5026 Jelly Tue, 28 Feb 2012 17:30:56 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5026 I don't knock anyone who has an open-relationship, but what I don't like is the "double standard." If everyone is cool with the man being free to sleep with who he wants, then the woman, if she chooses, should be afforded the same opportunity without any pushback. If we're going to allow swinging or side-pieces in our relationship, then let's keep it fair and equal and allow both parties to "do them" on their free time. I don’t knock anyone who has an open-relationship, but what I don’t like is the “double standard.” If everyone is cool with the man being free to sleep with who he wants, then the woman, if she chooses, should be afforded the same opportunity without any pushback.

If we’re going to allow swinging or side-pieces in our relationship, then let’s keep it fair and equal and allow both parties to “do them” on their free time.

]]> By: JESS http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5024 JESS Tue, 28 Feb 2012 17:20:33 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5024 Its sad that this is the current state of marriage. That women are willing to except cheating men for a comfortable lifestyle. Regardless of money or comfort a womens role in her marriage should never be comprised, placing a ring on someones finger means forsaking all others. Its sad that this is the current state of marriage. That women are willing to except cheating men for a comfortable lifestyle. Regardless of money or comfort a womens role in her marriage should never be comprised, placing a ring on someones finger means forsaking all others.

]]> By: Krista http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5023 Krista Tue, 28 Feb 2012 16:26:48 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5023 Nope, ion' care how much money he makes or how powerful he is. If he's not 100% faithful, he's going out the window (Not the door, but the window, because I'm pitching his cheating ass out of it.) Nope, ion’ care how much money he makes or how powerful he is. If he’s not 100% faithful, he’s going out the window (Not the door, but the window, because I’m pitching his cheating ass out of it.)

]]> By: Intensemocha http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5022 Intensemocha Tue, 28 Feb 2012 16:23:22 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5022 So basically she wants the title of wife only & not the respect that should accompany marriage- I wonder how open would their relationship be if she professed that she also would keep him informed about men she would engage in sex with?!?!?! She better work on that self-esteem knowing her worth, there is no doubt she's pretty ain't no pride in being a hoeish man's wife-seriously So basically she wants the title of wife only & not the respect that should accompany marriage- I wonder how open would their relationship be if she professed that she also would keep him informed about men she would engage in sex with?!?!?! She better work on that self-esteem knowing her worth, there is no doubt she’s pretty ain’t no pride in being a hoeish man’s wife-seriously

]]> By: Fab http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5021 Fab Tue, 28 Feb 2012 16:21:17 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5021 I'm confused as FCUK! I’m confused as FCUK!

]]> By: Venny http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/02/3-rules-to-a-healthy-open-relationship/#comment-5020 Venny Tue, 28 Feb 2012 16:17:04 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=19063#comment-5020 This is called being realistic when dealing with an athlete. It's not for everyone, but if you to choose to sign up for such a thing, it's either play the game or leave it alone. Not to say every athlete is the same... This is called being realistic when dealing with an athlete. It’s not for everyone, but if you to choose to sign up for such a thing, it’s either play the game or leave it alone. Not to say every athlete is the same…

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