http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/rules-of-engagement-5-things-friends-with-benefits-is-not/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rules-of-engagement-5-things-friends-with-benefits-is-not the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/rules-of-engagement-5-things-friends-with-benefits-is-not/#comment-4426 AD Stoneq Mon, 30 Jan 2012 18:46:32 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=17018#comment-4426 I have to disagree with 1 and 2. Maybe the wording is throwing me, but there is a difference between friends with benefits and f*ck buddies. To me, you are describing a f*ck buddy scenario, straight shots, no chaser. If you are friends with benefits, I believe that there should some sort of friendship involved. Getting together implies that sex will take place, yes, but I don't see the harm in meeting each other at the bar first to have a few drinks get a tipsy and touchy feely, and heighten the tension and anxiousness. I don't see why going for a simple dinner (2.5 star restaurant or less), talking a lil bit about your day, then heading back to her place is a problem. To keep her physically interested, you have to give her at least a touch of something mental, make her feel at least a little special. Same thing goes for me. Girls are a dime a dozen and not especially hard to obtain. So you have to be doing pornstar tricks or give me SOMETHING else to keep me excited and coming back. And it's only casual, you know you're not breaking your back pulling out all the tricks you saw Pinky or Cherokee D'Ass doing in that flick doing the other day, so I say at least give me the latter. I have to disagree with 1 and 2. Maybe the wording is throwing me, but there is a difference between friends with benefits and f*ck buddies. To me, you are describing a f*ck buddy scenario, straight shots, no chaser. If you are friends with benefits, I believe that there should some sort of friendship involved. Getting together implies that sex will take place, yes, but I don’t see the harm in meeting each other at the bar first to have a few drinks get a tipsy and touchy feely, and heighten the tension and anxiousness. I don’t see why going for a simple dinner (2.5 star restaurant or less), talking a lil bit about your day, then heading back to her place is a problem. To keep her physically interested, you have to give her at least a touch of something mental, make her feel at least a little special. Same thing goes for me. Girls are a dime a dozen and not especially hard to obtain. So you have to be doing pornstar tricks or give me SOMETHING else to keep me excited and coming back. And it’s only casual, you know you’re not breaking your back pulling out all the tricks you saw Pinky or Cherokee D’Ass doing in that flick doing the other day, so I say at least give me the latter.

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