Comments on: Personal Notes: Knowing When To Care From Afar http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/personal-notes-knowing-when-to-care-from-afar/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=personal-notes-knowing-when-to-care-from-afar the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 By: Franceli http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/personal-notes-knowing-when-to-care-from-afar/#comment-4394 Franceli Sat, 28 Jan 2012 21:44:29 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=17058#comment-4394 Niki, You are a true VIXEN! I love you dearly and am one of your biggest fans! I really love this post! So many women can relate to this, we've all been there or know someone who has. Its important to always put into perspective that HIS feelings do not have a greater or lesser value than yours, but always remember to HONOR YOURS. Much Love, Celi Niki,
You are a true VIXEN! I love you dearly and am one of your biggest fans! I really love this post! So many women can relate to this, we’ve all been there or know someone who has. Its important to always put into perspective that HIS feelings do not have a greater or lesser value than yours, but always remember to HONOR YOURS.

Much Love,
Celi

]]> By: LaToya http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/personal-notes-knowing-when-to-care-from-afar/#comment-4362 LaToya Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:13:47 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=17058#comment-4362 "And, Vixens, always remember that when the fun is gone, that’s it. (Men love fun!)" As a man, I completely agree with this statement! Men and women want life to be fun! When the fun is gone, then it is filled with something else and usually not as positive. Men might have a shorter tolerance for the negative in a relationship, but it does not stop the fact that it is not there anymore! I believe women have to understand, what a man is looking for: pleasure, happiness, or joy! Many people in general do not understand that the first two are fleeting emotions and are not constant! I hope you have better luck in your journey! Balance is a hard thing to master at any stage in life! A wise friend once told me, "Balance is not the removing or adding of things, but controlling(Niki the control freak) them!" With that combined with your, “…if you’re not gaining anything in a situation, you’re losing something, and quite possibly the most important stuff.” I think you have a good start to find balance! GOOD LUCK!!! -Chris “And, Vixens, always remember that when the fun is gone, that’s it. (Men love fun!)”

As a man, I completely agree with this statement! Men and women want life to be fun! When the fun is gone, then it is filled with something else and usually not as positive. Men might have a shorter tolerance for the negative in a relationship, but it does not stop the fact that it is not there anymore! I believe women have to understand, what a man is looking for: pleasure, happiness, or joy! Many people in general do not understand that the first two are fleeting emotions and are not constant! I hope you have better luck in your journey! Balance is a hard thing to master at any stage in life! A wise friend once told me, “Balance is not the removing or adding of things, but controlling(Niki the control freak) them!” With that combined with your, “…if you’re not gaining anything in a situation, you’re losing something, and quite possibly the most important stuff.” I think you have a good start to find balance! GOOD LUCK!!!

-Chris

]]> By: Liya http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/personal-notes-knowing-when-to-care-from-afar/#comment-4344 Liya Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:05:48 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=17058#comment-4344 "...if you’re not gaining anything in a situation, you’re losing something, and quite possibly the most important stuff." Niki, I love it! “…if you’re not gaining anything in a situation, you’re losing something, and quite possibly the most important stuff.” Niki, I love it!

]]> By: sissy :) http://www.vibevixen.com/2012/01/personal-notes-knowing-when-to-care-from-afar/#comment-4343 sissy :) Fri, 27 Jan 2012 16:49:10 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=17058#comment-4343 you write so well. so much passion. i really enjoy reading your articles, niki! you write so well. so much passion. i really enjoy reading your articles, niki!

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