I noticed the article said “real dad”. I’m still trying to figure this “real dad” thing out. My mom says my “real dad” took care of me and the other one is the sperm donor who didn’t care enough to raise me. This is not what my half sister says. She says her dad wanted to and said he wasn’t allowed to becasue my parents were married. Yep, my mom cheated on my dad. I asked her if he was allowed to and she finally said no he wasn’t and that my “real dad” wouldn’t let him but I have parents who love me and that’s all that matters. So I don’t know if a “real dad” would lie to a girl for 25 years or even 5 years because he’s insecure and didn’t want my so called “sperm donor” to be a threat.

Sometimes I post about this and people say stop being a child and get over it. The betrayal is what bothers me. The people you trsut the most turn out to hold the biggest secret of your life and not let you in on it. And not being given a chance to know my own dad to make my own opinion about him is just not fair.

When someone grows into adulthood and then it is suddenly revealed that they are not who they thought they were, it hits to the core of that person. It is about identity and she had a right to it at birth. Speculating if her father is a hairdresser is only relevant in fanning the flames of a tawdry scandal. However, the real scandal was that her identity was kept secret by her mother.

Pointing out the differences in her physical characteristics compared to the rest of the family is not just disrespectful, it is also deeply hurtful. Indeed, the opposite observations should be made, pointing out the similarities to her biological father.

I hope the poor girl can weather the media storm. Myself, and many others have had ride such tumultuous waves in coming to terms with such a situation. I can only imagine what it must be like to have to go through it in front of a camera. I wish her luck, and if she wants to find others who are going through similar experiences check out My DNA Dad, there is no other place like it.

But I think it’s sad when parents arent truthful and their mistakes end up devastating their child’s life. They have to know that everything in the dark comes to light and it is going to have some kind of impact when the child finds out. But that suff speaks more about the character of the parents and no matter how much a child loves thier parents, their view of the parent will change dramatically for lying to them for so many years.

What really upsets me is the fact that People like to laugh and joke about how Klhoe is bigger than her sisters. Who do these people think they are to tell her that she isn’t really apart of he family that she’s known her entire life. These are people who don’t know her or anything that she’s gone through in life to say something so hurtful. Sure her family decided to put their lives on tv for the world to see but for people to joke about her father not being her father and actually mean it is just so insensitive to me. Like the author stated, to find out one of your parents is not your biological parent is a confusing time and whether she knew or not, I feel like that should be a subject that shoulldn’t be scrutinized. Her mother is the one who cheated on her husband and the one who wants to capitalize off of everything. People need to talk about her.