http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/10/could-you-be-in-a-celibate-relationship/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=could-you-be-in-a-celibate-relationship the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/10/could-you-be-in-a-celibate-relationship/#comment-1965 bimpe Sat, 08 Oct 2011 07:14:19 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=10281#comment-1965 At the point i am in my life i honestly believe not everyone who includes sex as a vital part of a relationship gets it right. Sex indeed generates deep feelings, thatis if its in actual concept of the word, and not some fling or some i dont know what we are doing. I would substitute intimacy, for sex here, if its not gotten right, it bcome sex and when sex is a determinant for what is between a man and a woman then that relationship is bound to have troubles. Sex never works it. Never. Even when its abt sex and u see them go on for long, its bcos respect and understanding has begun to set in, i presently in a relationship just two month, and my boyfriend is freaking out that he cant make love, indeed... Its called making love until he hits that and is out. ( Hahaha) he is that desperate he wants to settle for anal wch i have never done in my life. Hell sex is sex i tell him, i have actually had to stay away, for one month to build strength so when i see him I'm not vulnerable and open my legs. I'm tryn to know where the whole thing is going, and prepare myself emotionally, if it doesnt work out after we finally sex then i would be able to handle it because then i would be mentally stable to deal with whatever issues might occur as it was of my own volition to get intimate. But being forced when I'm not ready will just keep me tumbling down, at 27 I'm not game for unnecessary drama and wasted emotions. If anyone has tips as to how to keep away from wrecking my relationship with early sex pls reply me, in the meantime I'm praying a lot to God to give me strength. I know he will. At the point i am in my life i honestly believe not everyone who includes sex as a vital part of a relationship gets it right. Sex indeed generates deep feelings, thatis if its in actual concept of the word, and not some fling or some i dont know what we are doing. I would substitute intimacy, for sex here, if its not gotten right, it bcome sex and when sex is a determinant for what is between a man and a woman then that relationship is bound to have troubles. Sex never works it. Never. Even when its abt sex and u see them go on for long, its bcos respect and understanding has begun to set in, i presently in a relationship just two month, and my boyfriend is freaking out that he cant make love, indeed… Its called making love until he hits that and is out. ( Hahaha) he is that desperate he wants to settle for anal wch i have never done in my life. Hell sex is sex i tell him, i have actually had to stay away, for one month to build strength so when i see him I’m not vulnerable and open my legs. I’m tryn to know where the whole thing is going, and prepare myself emotionally, if it doesnt work out after we finally sex then i would be able to handle it because then i would be mentally stable to deal with whatever issues might occur as it was of my own volition to get intimate. But being forced when I’m not ready will just keep me tumbling down, at 27 I’m not game for unnecessary drama and wasted emotions. If anyone has tips as to how to keep away from wrecking my relationship with early sex pls reply me, in the meantime I’m praying a lot to God to give me strength. I know he will.

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