Comments on: The Bad Bitch Epidemic http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-bad-bitch-epidemic the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 By: smh http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/#comment-3831 smh Sat, 07 Jan 2012 03:54:43 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=5694#comment-3831 I bet you say nigga thou right? Is that a negative turned positive. Reason why females feel proud is because they understand the common sense... ITS A DIFFERENT MEANING. Bad bitch means a strong, independent, ambitious, opinionated, risk taking female. Men coined the term when referring to a top of the line female, a female who isnt toxic nice,and doormat good. Its a tounge in cheek slang. Does michelle or oprah say wassup nigga every 2 secs? NO. If you are not a bad bitch, i feel sorry for you. AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOOKS, "BEAUTY" ignorant. Smh. I bet you say nigga thou right? Is that a negative turned positive. Reason why females feel proud is because they understand the common sense… ITS A DIFFERENT MEANING. Bad bitch means a strong, independent, ambitious, opinionated, risk taking female. Men coined the term when referring to a top of the line female, a female who isnt toxic nice,and doormat good. Its a tounge in cheek slang. Does michelle or oprah say wassup nigga every 2 secs? NO. If you are not a bad bitch, i feel sorry for you. AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOOKS, “BEAUTY” ignorant. Smh.

]]> By: Dee Dee Russell http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/#comment-1225 Dee Dee Russell Tue, 23 Aug 2011 21:53:58 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=5694#comment-1225 This chick isn't bad- is she was, she'd be rappping in blue jeans and a tee shirt, like her male counterparts. This chick isn’t bad- is she was, she’d be rappping in blue jeans and a tee shirt, like her male counterparts.

]]> By: Christina Charlery http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/#comment-1125 Christina Charlery Mon, 15 Aug 2011 21:17:45 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=5694#comment-1125 Thank you! I'm glad you all enjoyed the article. Thank you! I’m glad you all enjoyed the article.

]]> By: BryanH http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/#comment-1109 BryanH Sun, 14 Aug 2011 17:19:23 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=5694#comment-1109 Thank you, Christina, for writing this. I was really starting to wonder what was happening with our young black women. No self-respecting man or woman will have a problem with what you've said. Keep it coming. Love it! Thank you, Christina, for writing this. I was really starting to wonder what was happening with our young black women. No self-respecting man or woman will have a problem with what you’ve said. Keep it coming. Love it!

]]> By: Kemya Scott http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/#comment-1094 Kemya Scott Sat, 13 Aug 2011 03:57:12 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=5694#comment-1094 You hit this one dead on! Maybe I'm too old (36) but I don't know when it became ok to be a b*tch. It's sheer nonsense and people need to learn their history, or as the adage says, they'll be destined to repeat history. Women need to stop trying to be down with the guys and work toward showing public decorum and grace. I wish somebody would call me a b*tch, I guarantee I would kill that bad habit! You hit this one dead on! Maybe I’m too old (36) but I don’t know when it became ok to be a b*tch. It’s sheer nonsense and people need to learn their history, or as the adage says, they’ll be destined to repeat history. Women need to stop trying to be down with the guys and work toward showing public decorum and grace. I wish somebody would call me a b*tch, I guarantee I would kill that bad habit!

]]> By: DollBaby http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/08/the-bad-bitch-epidemic/#comment-1087 DollBaby Fri, 12 Aug 2011 20:06:03 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=5694#comment-1087 Bravo!!! Well said!!!! I'm 34 and I'm not a big hip hop but I remember seeing proud women like Queen Latifah saying Ladies First. One of my favorite lines in U.N.I.T.Y was "who you calling a bitch". Seeing MC Lyte doing her thing and even though Salt and Pepa were more sexual they also had messages for the youth such as Let's talk about Sex and empowering young ladies with She Thang... It's really refreshing to read your article and seeing how passionate you are about us women maintaining our self respect. It's hard journey because others will say you take things too seriously but I like a particular saying by the late Mr. Malcolm X "if a man stands for nothing, will falls for anthing"... p.s. I have to say I love this paragraph the best " To some, I am making a big deal out of another slang term, developed out of hip-hop culture, that is destined to fade in a couple years. But, just do me a favor ladies, before you get dolled up and as Swiss would say, “Hair done, nails done, everything did,” and want to call yourself, “A Bad Bitch” when you are most proud of your physical appearance, think about what some of your role models would refer to themselves as in that same situation. Would Michelle Obama in her inauguration gown say, “I’m a Bad Bitch!”? Would Oprah ever refer to herself as a “Bad Bitch” while saying her last words on her series finale? What about your mother? Your grandmother? Is that something you want your daughter to say about herself? Yes, it just two words, but believe me, the message behind those two words is pushing our progression back by decades." Love the last sentence especially... I know some will say you're a feminist but stick to your guns! You're making some of us that view ourselves as Queens proud. Bravo!!! Well said!!!! I’m 34 and I’m not a big hip hop but I remember seeing proud women like Queen Latifah saying Ladies First. One of my favorite lines in U.N.I.T.Y was “who you calling a bitch”. Seeing MC Lyte doing her thing and even though Salt and Pepa were more sexual they also had messages for the youth such as Let’s talk about Sex and empowering young ladies with She Thang…

It’s really refreshing to read your article and seeing how passionate you are about us women maintaining our self respect. It’s hard journey because others will say you take things too seriously but I like a particular saying by the late Mr. Malcolm X “if a man stands for nothing, will falls for anthing”…

p.s. I have to say I love this paragraph the best ” To some, I am making a big deal out of another slang term, developed out of hip-hop culture, that is destined to fade in a couple years. But, just do me a favor ladies, before you get dolled up and as Swiss would say, “Hair done, nails done, everything did,” and want to call yourself, “A Bad Bitch” when you are most proud of your physical appearance, think about what some of your role models would refer to themselves as in that same situation. Would Michelle Obama in her inauguration gown say, “I’m a Bad Bitch!”? Would Oprah ever refer to herself as a “Bad Bitch” while saying her last words on her series finale? What about your mother? Your grandmother? Is that something you want your daughter to say about herself?

Yes, it just two words, but believe me, the message behind those two words is pushing our progression back by decades.”

Love the last sentence especially… I know some will say you’re a feminist but stick to your guns! You’re making some of us that view ourselves as Queens proud.

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