Comments on: The Cow Is Dead And The Milk Is Sour http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour the new style of sexy Tue, 14 Aug 2012 18:18:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 By: Lovely http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-476 Lovely Sun, 31 Jul 2011 06:59:28 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-476 so sick of the damn gender roles.. woman cooks, clean etc... so played we are equals now so sick of the damn gender roles.. woman cooks, clean etc… so played we are equals now

]]> By: tami http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-439 tami Fri, 29 Jul 2011 12:47:58 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-439 I am with your girlfriend. I feel the same way. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free? I'm not talking about just sex either. I'm talking about having someone have your back completely, cooking, cleaning, sharing finances. If marriage is what I want in order to get that, then give it to me! Hell, he's getting everything else...Just having sex is not the problem for me, it's everything else that goes with it, that would require me to want a committment stating that we are married. I am with your girlfriend. I feel the same way. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free? I’m not talking about just sex either. I’m talking about having someone have your back completely, cooking, cleaning, sharing finances. If marriage is what I want in order to get that, then give it to me! Hell, he’s getting everything else…Just having sex is not the problem for me, it’s everything else that goes with it, that would require me to want a committment stating that we are married.

]]> By: Girl http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-433 Girl Fri, 29 Jul 2011 02:52:18 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-433 Sex isnt the only thing that counts under "milk" By moving in together they would make her do REAL wifey things like daily cooking, cleaning up after him, laundry and all that other crap that a mere gf shouldnt be doing. Sex isnt the only thing that counts under “milk”

By moving in together they would make her do REAL wifey things like daily cooking, cleaning up after him, laundry and all that other crap that a mere gf shouldnt be doing.

]]> By: dejerseyvixen http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-431 dejerseyvixen Fri, 29 Jul 2011 01:12:26 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-431 the milk is MORE than sex. living with a man means you are assuming the role of a wife and trust me honey being wife is not just sex, it's sharing the bills, having common financial responsibilities, etc cooking cleaning, worriying after a man and more FREQUENT sex which can lead to PREGNANCY. when you are not living together and u accidently miss a couple of your pills there's less of a chance of getting prego, you live with a man, there's little room for error. Living with a man everyone is going to assume you are a wife when it comes to the responsibilities but not necessarily give you the privileges when you would want them, so why the hell would i assume the role of a wife without being one?? the milk is MORE than sex. living with a man means you are assuming the role of a wife and trust me honey being wife is not just sex, it’s sharing the bills, having common financial responsibilities, etc cooking cleaning, worriying after a man and more FREQUENT sex which can lead to PREGNANCY. when you are not living together and u accidently miss a couple of your pills there’s less of a chance of getting prego, you live with a man, there’s little room for error. Living with a man everyone is going to assume you are a wife when it comes to the responsibilities but not necessarily give you the privileges when you would want them, so why the hell would i assume the role of a wife without being one??

]]> By: OSHH http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-425 OSHH Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:16:13 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-425 Maybe the milk is more than sex to your friend. Maybe the milk is more than sex to your friend.

]]> By: LaNeshe http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-424 LaNeshe Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:04:36 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-424 "Milk" doesn't have to just be sex, it could also be her cooking for him, being his alarm clock and keeping house and any other things she'd be doing while they live together that she isn't doing while they have their own dwellings. It can be logical to think that if you're already living with a man and keeping the house you live together that he'll see no reason to get married. “Milk” doesn’t have to just be sex, it could also be her cooking for him, being his alarm clock and keeping house and any other things she’d be doing while they live together that she isn’t doing while they have their own dwellings. It can be logical to think that if you’re already living with a man and keeping the house you live together that he’ll see no reason to get married.

]]> By: ts http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-423 ts Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:01:25 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-423 I see your point, however the phrase in itself is not without merit. Over and over there are couples who have been seeing each other for years with the women wanting marriage and the man stalling (or vise-versa). The truth is to too many people marriage is just a piece of paper, and if you want marriage you have to let your man know that something is at stake. I mean if you were a man would you get married if your already getting all of the marriage perks from your partner? As for me I am waiting for marriage for sex because I do want a huge perk of my relationship to be on reserve for when I have something more set in stone. I see your point, however the phrase in itself is not without merit. Over and over there are couples who have been seeing each other for years with the women wanting marriage and the man stalling (or vise-versa). The truth is to too many people marriage is just a piece of paper, and if you want marriage you have to let your man know that something is at stake. I mean if you were a man would you get married if your already getting all of the marriage perks from your partner?
As for me I am waiting for marriage for sex because I do want a huge perk of my relationship to be on reserve for when I have something more set in stone.

]]> By: sunshyne84 http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-420 sunshyne84 Thu, 28 Jul 2011 17:55:18 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-420 Maybe she doesn't consider the milk as just the sex. *shrug* She may not want to move in because she doesn't want to pick up her socks right away or get looked at funny if she left a plate in the sink. You have to get used ot each other's habits when you live together. You still have a little bit of freedom when you are on your own. Nothing wrong with not wanting to play house. Maybe she doesn’t consider the milk as just the sex. *shrug* She may not want to move in because she doesn’t want to pick up her socks right away or get looked at funny if she left a plate in the sink. You have to get used ot each other’s habits when you live together. You still have a little bit of freedom when you are on your own. Nothing wrong with not wanting to play house.

]]> By: Ravi http://www.vibevixen.com/2011/07/the-cow-is-dead-and-the-milk-is-sour/#comment-419 Ravi Thu, 28 Jul 2011 17:44:53 +0000 http://www.vibevixen.com/?p=4382#comment-419 I don't think you can say that the rationale is without logic. I just think it is operating from a different set of premises. Namely, your argument presumes that living together without being married is essentially the same sin as fornication. That's a matter of perspective. If you view them as different sins altogether, then it would make sense that she avoids living together even if fornication hasn't been avoided. Moreover, a persons actions aren't necessarily the standard for what they deem as right or wrong. So a woman could say, without hypocrisy, that it is wrong or sinful to shack up with a guy without marriage, even while she happily fornicates with that same guy. The implication is that she knows that her fornication is also sinful and has resigned herself to doing it anyway. Now if she were actually claiming that the fornication was not wrong, then that would be different. I don’t think you can say that the rationale is without logic. I just think it is operating from a different set of premises. Namely, your argument presumes that living together without being married is essentially the same sin as fornication. That’s a matter of perspective. If you view them as different sins altogether, then it would make sense that she avoids living together even if fornication hasn’t been avoided.

Moreover, a persons actions aren’t necessarily the standard for what they deem as right or wrong. So a woman could say, without hypocrisy, that it is wrong or sinful to shack up with a guy without marriage, even while she happily fornicates with that same guy. The implication is that she knows that her fornication is also sinful and has resigned herself to doing it anyway. Now if she were actually claiming that the fornication was not wrong, then that would be different.

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